Here at Geeky KOOL, we rarely hype other geek websites. We do use geek articles from others as the source for many of our articles and we give credit where it is due. But rarely do we point to an article and tell you to go read it but this is an exception. Please go to Ace of Geeks and check out the article The “Fake Geek” is Not The Problem When It Comes to “Fake Geek Girls”.
This is an excellent article about the heresy of the Fake Geek Girl issue. It discusses how it is not about the integrity of whatever geek thing you are into but rather about gender discrimination. Chris Brecheen uses his own experience to prove his point.
Below is an excerpt to wet your appetite. Make sure to check out the full article.
Frankly put. I am a FAKE GEEK GUY. I admit it. I like geek stuff, but I don’t love geek stuff. Not the way most geeks do. I’m an interloper on the geek scene. I’ve seen the movies, but I don’t know the canon. I am not a true fan.
All those things about not really loving the source material and “just watching the movies” or only reading the one book that everyone has read. That–all of that–applies to me.
But here are some things that have never happened to me. I have never been quizzed about who Data’s evil brother is to prove I like Star Trek. I have never had to justify my place in a midnight line to see Spider-man II by knowing who took up the mantle of Spider-man after Peter Parker’s death. (Peter Parker dies? Really? That’s so sad!) I have never had to explain who Nightwing is in order to participate in a conversation about Batman. (Nightwing is like….Robin on steroids, right?) I have never been asked how battle meditation works in order to voice my opinion that Enterprise shields would probably make a fight with Star Wars technology one sided. (Battle meditation is something that was in that Jedi role playing game, wasn’t it?) I have never had to beat everybody in the room (twice) at Mario Kart to prove I liked video games. I have never had my gender “honorarily” changed by having enough geek interests to be accepted (“you’re one of the guys now”). No one has ever insisted I tell them the difference between a tank and DPS in an MMORPG before allowing me to discuss raiding Molten Core. I have never been dismissed as a faker at a prequel screening because I didn’t know which admiral came out of light speed too close to the planet’s surface in The Empire Strikes Back. I have never been quizzed about Armor Class in order to get past someone who was blocking my path to the back of a game store where my friends were waiting at the tables. I have never been told I’m not a real fan. I have never been shamed for coming to a convention despite my lack of esoteric knowledge. And I have never, ever, EVER been invited to leave a fandom because I didn’t like [whatever it was] enough.
Every one of the things I have listed, I have personally witnessed happen. To women.
That’s not elitism. That’s sexism. (Ace Of Geeks)
This is a terrific article. I couldn’t agree more with his points. There is NO reason not to allow all people into our Geek/Nerd tent no matter their gender or geek/nerd interests.
We were all newbies at one time yet must of us geek guys were accepted in the community when we didn’t know much about anything. Many of us were mentored by others and taught about our passions. Why make a girl prove herself if most of us couldn’t have answered these questions when we were newbs?
The first guy that tests my daughter’s geekiness will see her father turn into the Incredible Hulk. Hulk SMASH! By the way, Bruce Banner’s Hulk and not David Banner’s Hulk.
Stay Geeky My Friends!
